Sunday, June 18, 2017

Fathering: Reveals Manhood


I am a father because my sons carry my DNA. But because I Father (invest my time, energy, effort and emotional, financial and spiritual resources in my children's development) I am a dad. 

Every boy, young and adult man struggles with what is meant by Manhood

In God's infinite wisdom, discovery of Manhood, an elusive but accessible mystery is only revealed in the trenches. Fathering is the means...

Fathering has a way of stripping a man of pretense while equipping him with purpose. Fathering chisels away arrogance while cloaking him in humility. Fathering redirects his recklessness toward remarkable responsibleness. Fathering reverses man's misinterpreting vulnerability as weakness into a sign of attained venerability. Fathering reshapes one's narrow distorted ego into an accepting eclectic ecosystem. Fathering stretches the perceived reach of strength beyond the physical to include strength in its emotional, psychological and spiritual capacities. 

In short, fathering reveals the complexities of Manhood. Submission to Fathering is an arduous process without end but every successful attempt unveils God's intention for Manhood and the recipients (sons/daughters - males/females) of our courageous striving.  Fathering is a pathway to Manhood but doesn't require a man’s reproductive seed yet demands every aspect of his being! 

When we young and adult men submit to fathering, Manhood becomes our reality and God says to each of us:

“This is my Son, and I love him. I am very pleased with him.”

Much Love from a Dad in the trenches who is learning-discovering Manhood and God's intention for himself and his young boys.

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!

-- 
INSPIRED BY LOVE, 
Pastor Marcus J. Singleton


 

Monday, May 29, 2017

Remembering Our "Great Responsibility" (Memorial Day Reflection from a UMC Elder)

As Memorial Day is a remembrance of the fallen military women and men who died while protecting democracy. 

It's also true too many tombs are filled with well meaning military personnel and innocent civilians who died for the sake of "nationalism" which truth be told is an oft misguided notion leaving us to wonder, why and for what did our loved ones die?  

Hence, this Memorial Day, I find myself reflecting on leadership.

Given the solemnity of this holiday and the despair that accompanies the loss of life, I have concluded with certainty the necessity for sober, courageous, thoughtful and humble leaders who are mindful that death is a very possible implication of their decisions.

This Memorial Day reminds me within my present context as an Elder in the United Methodist Church (which is a hierarchical Church-Ecclesial system that operates similarly to the government), spiritual deaths commonly occur in the name of "God", "Jesus" and/or the "Book of Discipline". 

Reflecting upon known and unknown losses vividly pronounces the "Great Responsibility" we-church leaders (Bishops, Deacons, District Superintendents, Elders, Laypersons and Local Pastors) owe to God, the followers of Jesus and not yet followers of Christ. 

Across our Connection, there's a painful witness of tombs, many cloaked as churches both nearly empty and filled to capacity with well-meaning Christians and innocent church goers (attenders). With honesty, confession and in some cases repentance, we have to recognize these churches are the results of our decisions (Bishops, Deacons, District Superintendents, Elders, Laypersons and Local Pastors). 

Considering death and her constant proximity, we (leaders) are challenged through fear and trembling to courageously provide life-giving leadership. Jesus exhorts us to weigh the outcomes of our decisions, thus, we mustn't take lightly any of our resolutions as unlike any other leaders our actions/inactions have both earthly and Eternal consequences. 

As we remember the saints we've lost and acknowledge the deaths (of dying and closed churches), our response should be to lead with greater commitment and conviction toward Jesus' vision of the church - "a church so expansive with energy that not even the gates of hell will be able to keep it out." 

While we (church leaders) hold the memory of past deaths, successes and missteps nigh, may we enthusiastically launch into not yets, emboldened by unrelenting Hope, anchored to the Holy Spirit and inspired by Love provide leadership which guides our churches to God's preferred future. So that all of God's people regardless of their faith, race, gender, ethnicity, social location, sexual orientation, country of origin, etc. will know that we United Methodist Christians freely worship Jesus and full-heartedly preach and teach freedom, as we announce for everyone to hear:

"Good News to the poor,
Pardon to prisoners, 
Recovery of sight to the blind,
The oppressed and battered are free, 
AND
“This is God’s year to act!”"

Let not our memorial be in vain, but because of courageous leadership from Bishops, Deacons, District Superintendents, Elders, Laypersons and Local Pastors, all people will see the church anew and attest that "God’s home is too among the People called Methodists! Yes, God lives with them, and they too are God's people. (It's clear) God is present and guiding the United Methodist Church."

This is my commitment, hope and prayer as an Elder in the United Methodist Church.

-- 
INSPIRED BY LOVE, 
Pastor Marcus J. Singleton
(205) 440-2879 

Saturday, January 21, 2017

BEYOND POLITICS: FAREWELL FORTY-FOUR

*Note to reader: the following reflection isn’t meant to elevate President Obama as a savior or messianic figure, he like every President before him and all who will follow is a flawed human being whose leadership decisions are sometimes questionable, detrimental, and ill-advised.

America, particularly white America, to understand the weightiness and significance of Barack Hussein Obama’s Presidency, the lens of politics is insufficient.

To grasp #44s tenure, a cursory glance at America’s soiled history toward Black, Brown and Yellow humanity provides the aperture through which to see, think and feel. 


Clearly, America never intended the vestments 
of the most powerful office to be adorned by a Negro.

The pundits and historians will forever debate the leadership and policies of the Obama Presidency in attempts to define his legacy. Perhaps, altogether overlooking the single greatest impact (of the election of Barack Obama).

Mr. Obama is a non-white male citizen. . .

The two-term Presidency of Barack Obama, like the Affordable Care Act, granted millions upon millions access to a healthy soul. The mere presence of his Blackish-Brownish-Yellowish face in the Oval Office signaled at once: the possibility of healing, restoration of humanity, evidence of America’s striving toward a More Perfect Union and demonstrating a commitment to upholding her Declaration:“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all (Black, Brown, White and Yellow) men (women) are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.”

POTUS Obama, the leader of the free world, forced America to acknowledge the legitimacy of Blackness. Irrespective of the historical rejection and subjugation of people designated as Black, America had elected a Commander-in-Chief, whose pigmentation years ago, would have legally denied him recognition as fully human. From 1787 to 1861, the U.S. Constitution instituted the Three-Fifths Compromise declaring: for purposes of representation in Congress, enslaved blacks in a state would be counted as three-fifths of the number of white inhabitants of that state”.

Although, prior to negotiating with Congress
or foreign leaders, signing any laws or vetoing any bills,
Barack Obama would be known as a historic President.

Yet, 2008 and 2012 proved so much more than just a historical note. This election became therapeutic, a symbol of pride strengthening our resolve, and encouraging us to stand unmoved in the struggle to be human.

In a real sense, #44 empowered Black people to emerge from the despairing shadow of invisibility. No longer would our Blackness go unnoticed! As President Obama, soulfully and with swagger boarded Air Force One, so too were Black people taking flight – more importantly being seen. Either during Mr. President’s debriefs in the West Wing, strolls through the Rose Garden or hosting Heads of State, etc., there we stood.

At last, we like the Narrator in Ralph Ellison’s Invisible Man could confidently reject invisibility and assert: “Must I strive towards colorlessness? But seriously and without snobbery, think of what the world would lose if that should happen. America is woven of many strands.  I would recognize them and let it so remain.”

In short, ladies and gentlemen the President of the United States of America...reinvigorated our worn and waning hope in American ideals. Our President’s ascendancy to the highest office seemed to secure the often-elusive legitimacy of Black folks’ place within the chain of humanity. We now sat at the proverbial welcoming table! Once meager “huddled masses yearning to be free” we were among the gathered, partaking in the selective delicacy of freedom.

Black America, Brown America, White America, Yellow America. . .politics aside, President Obama’s arrival to the White House affirmed our deep-seated conviction: politics isn’t the measuring stick for one's humanity, humanity is governed by an Omnipotence of whom we all are image bearers. The swearing in of our lengthy–eared Chief Diplomat seemed to give rise to a repentant America embracing her prophetic preamble “all men (women, people) are created equal” and her pledging allegiance to a “God (that) shows no partiality”

The 2008 election powered by then Senator Obama’s campaign belief, “Yes We Can!” was a resolution of sorts.  A proclamation moving us beyond politics as usual to a spiritual mandate not bound by term limits:

Yes We Can – We can Be Human (God Inspired)!
Yes We Can – We can see Human(ity) in every hue!

Inspired By Love,
Pastor Marcus J. Singleton