I
am a father because my sons carry my DNA. But because I Father (invest my time,
energy, effort and emotional, financial and spiritual resources in my
children's development) I am a dad.
Every boy, young and adult man struggles with what is
meant by Manhood.
In
God's infinite wisdom, discovery of Manhood, an elusive but accessible mystery is only
revealed in the trenches. Fathering is the means...
Fathering
has a way of stripping a man of pretense while equipping him with purpose.
Fathering chisels away arrogance while cloaking him in humility. Fathering
redirects his recklessness toward remarkable responsibleness. Fathering reverses
man's misinterpreting vulnerability as weakness into a sign of attained
venerability. Fathering reshapes one's narrow distorted ego into an accepting
eclectic ecosystem. Fathering stretches the perceived reach of strength beyond
the physical to include strength in its emotional, psychological and spiritual
capacities.
In
short, fathering reveals the complexities of Manhood. Submission to Fathering
is an arduous process without end but every successful attempt unveils God's
intention for Manhood and the recipients (sons/daughters - males/females) of our
courageous striving. Fathering is a pathway to Manhood but doesn't
require a man’s reproductive seed yet demands every aspect of his being!
When we young and adult men submit to fathering, Manhood becomes our
reality and God says to each of us:
“This is my Son, and I love him. I am very pleased with
him.”
Much
Love from a Dad in the trenches who is learning-discovering Manhood and God's
intention for himself and his young boys.
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!
--
INSPIRED BY LOVE,
Pastor
Marcus J. Singleton
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