Have you ever placed too
much emphasis on one outcome? For example – having a significant other; getting
a promotion; passing a professional exam; gaining acceptance to a particular
school; making an athletic team; being selected for a competitive award; receiving
recognition from your peer group, etc. The danger is you might thwart your
potential; or maybe never realize your greatest outcomes.
As I watched my oldest
son jump into the deep end of the pool determined to pass his swim test by
swimming the length of the pool, I wanted badly for him to succeed because he
had talked about this moment for weeks and weeks. However, I didn't want the result
of this one test to define his ability to swim. “Kick, Scoop, Breathe!” I chanted. ”Kick, Scoop, Breathe – You can do
it!” Half way there he's still swimming strong; with three quarters
complete he's winded and struggling...”Kick, Scoop, Breathe – Come on, You
can do it!” He had swam his farthest distance ever to date, only a few more
kicks, scoops and breaths and he would
have passed the test.
But I stepped in. Why?
Clearly, he didn't have enough breath or strength to complete the remaining
distance. He needed a little more time, more practice. So, I celebrated his
accomplishment believing he would better achieve his goal during another visit
to the pool. This decision became a teachable moment. Certainly, he had not
failed on this first attempt. Its possible continued urging of more kicks,
scoops and breaths would have helped him attain his swim badge (of honor). Conversely, pushing too hard he
may have swallowed some water, or begun going under and loss confidence in his
ability to swim.
Sometimes we place too
much emphasis on one moment; one opportunity; or one event defining ourselves
by that solitary outcome. In doing so we fail to realize that our greatest
victories lie before us. Along the way, sometimes we will fail and sometimes we
will succeed.
Hence, we
must recognize it’s the sum of our efforts that matters most.
Jesus, the greatest and
most prolific leader and preacher ever – wasn't well received after preaching
his first sermon. In fact, he faced a hostile audience ready to harm him
because of his daring pronouncements. Jesus could have just accepted this as a
success or failure but well aware of his future opportunities, he makes an
interesting decision. Does he kick, scoop or breathe? None of these are his
choice.
Jesus understood this
wasn't the defining moment of his ministry. He realized preaching more sermons
was in his future and concluded that the analysis of the sum of his ministry matters most - more than this one moment; this one
opportunity; or this one event. Notice Jesus' choice:
"When
they heard this, the people in the synagogue were furious. Jumping up, they
mobbed him and forced him to the edge of the hill on which the town was built.
They intended to push him over the cliff, but he
passed right through the crowd and went on his way."
Luke 4:28-30
Sometimes our
best action or choice is recognition,
the sum of our efforts matters most!
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Sum
questions for your thoughts:
1. Do you
know when it's best for you to continue to kick, scoop and breathe?
2. Is your
solitary focus on one moment; one event; or one opportunity?
3. Do you
need to take some time to celebrate your present accomplishments?
4. Do you
know the sum of your efforts is more important than one success or one failure?
--
Inspired By Love,
Marcus J. Singleton
Lead Pastor
Living Faith Community
Marcus J. Singleton
Lead Pastor
Living Faith Community
Hoover, AL
Our Vision: "A diverse community of faith; inspired by the love of Jesus, committed to becoming and making disciples".
When God scoops us up and saves us from our best efforts we call it grace.
ReplyDeleteWhen you do it for your son, it's still grace.
Thanks for the reminder that not only are we to accept God's gift of grace toward us, we are to be channels of that same grace toward one another.
Suz